Sweet Talkers: How Query Formulation Shapes Sycophancy in Romantic Relationship Advice
Helena Choi, Edric Castel Hao, Karl Bautista, Francis Gabriel Magleo, Renzo Panti, Danielle Beatrice Olalia
Abstract
Large language models (LLMs) are increasingly used for emotional support and relationship advice, where a model's tendency to preserve a user's face can inadvertently reinforce harmful interpersonal behaviors. To systematically examine this risk, we developed the Romantic Relationship Advice-Seeking Prompts (RRASP) dataset of 2,400 prompts across five relationship themes and evaluated social sycophancy using the ELEPHANT framework on two consumer-facing models, GPT-5 Mini and Gemini 3 Flash. Contrary to our initial hypothesis, grammatical mood alone did not produce systematic differences in sycophantic behavior, suggesting that what a user implies matters more than how they phrase it. Instead, perspective-driven framing had a stronger influence, with gaps between original and flipped prompts widening in follow-up responses. Consistent increases in framing and moral sycophancy across turns indicate that models become more likely to accept a user's stated premises and affirm their ethical stance as a dialogue progresses. Notably, Gemini 3 Flash exhibited substantially smaller increases in moral sycophancy than GPT-5 Mini, suggesting it is more resistant to reinforcing ethically problematic positions across turns.